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And you're right that men (or what society perceives as men) are socialized differently. My point is that being less emotional doesn't have to be or isn't a or "the" problem. In my opinion there's typical masculine behaviour that is "good" and typical masculine behaviour that is "stupid" or outright dangerous and the same goes "feminine" behaviour. Genders can learn from each other. And, just to add that, there's of course a large disparity of power between "males" and "females" (on the "male" side). In construction of society as well, as in a bodily way. I might probably get a lot of hits for that now, but because of how penises and vaginas work, it's just physically hardly possible for a woman to rape a man. (! I'm not saying that this is the reason why men rape a lot and women almost never do).

Negatively formulated: fuck masculine behaviour, fuck feminine behaviour. People are stupid in general :D.

If you reply to this, i'm going to leave you the last word, because this is such a complicated topic, my train of thought needs a few pages of explanation, and i don't have the desire nor energy to do that right now.